Booty call: This one is obvious but let me break it down for you. He just wants to sleep with you. Period. That’s all he wants. Again: you cannot change him. You find this kind of guy attractive, easy on the eye and yes you do want to sleep with him-but you also want more. He’s just not ready for more and doesn’t desire more with you. He calls late at night, likes to talk about sex, ask for nudes, the usual spin on how you’re so hot and you’re the sexiest woman he’s ever seen…-you get my drift-all to get in bed with you by the way.
Verdict: Time Waster
Goal: Sleep with you as much as he can until he gets bored
Financially dependent: I like to call this one: “I’ll pay you back”. Although he never does. You lend him money today-he says he will pay you back tomorrow. He does not. You ask for it and then he plays the whole guilt trip card saying: don’t you trust me? You don’t at this stage-I know but you can’t say that so you say: yes I do. And then you wallow in confusion as he never returns the money or doesn’t return it in full. And then he asks you for money again: usually its for an emergency, a loan, a little extra something to keep him going for “just a few days” etc. Basically you’re his bank account. Yes sis I’m very honest and this is the truth.
Verdict: Time Waster
Goal: He’s using your money to sustain himself and possibly other women
Smooth talker: This is the narcissistic and manipulative man. Classic alpha male/macho man. He’s your typical guy in a nutshell. Big, strong and also a huge, HUGE ego. HUGE. He takes advantage of your desire for him to manipulate and use you. He likes to take advantage of your desire for him and use it against you. He’s disrespectful, emotionally abusive, sometimes even physically abusive, proud, arrogant. And he doesn’t apologize for it: he expects you to conform to his idea of what he wants. He’s very selfish: he only cares about himself. He’s a classic gentleman in public and a monster in private. Sound familiar? Then join my waiting list here for my course
Verdict: Time Waster
Goal: Use you to boost his ego and make him feel more like a man
Mama’s boy: This guy is soft but don’t be deceived-he’s very smart. He looks like your ideal family man. He looks like someone you can settle down with but he’s not. He’s not quite there yet but he may get there soon: not soon enough though. And he still won’t choose you even if you do wait for him to get there. So what does he want? A companion: someone to be there for him now until he’s ready-and then he’ll choose another. He cares about his family: talks about them-has a good relationship with his parents, siblings and friends. The typical kind of guy you can introduce to your parents and they’ll probably love him-but mind you: he doesn’t want to settle down yet. And he doesn’t want to settle down with you. And he knows it. But he won’t tell you. What he will tell you is he’s ready to settle down-which is a lie-but he’s smart so he wants you to stick around. He’ll tell you half-truths. Never the full truth. There’s always a lie wriggling inside his truth and you can sense it and even smell it but you find it hard to catch it. He’s smart, sleek, sly.
Verdict: Time Waster
Goal: Use you for emotional support until he’s ready to stand on his own
Husband Material: This one is close to your husband in looks, height, emotional support, spiritual maturity and everything else in between-but… he’s not the one. (Have you joined the course waiting list yet? I share all about recognizing the right man quickly join here)
He knows this-but you don’t. He knows you desire to be with him too. Yes and he uses it to his advantage. He has elements from all the 9 other men combined and so he’s the most dangerous. He promises you marriage-you may even get engaged-but he doesn’t lead you to the alter he just leads you to confusion. You may have even been married to him before. He’s very good at masking his truest self-you have to be discerning with this one. Your spirit may not even pick on him fast enough if you’re not sensitive enough-which is why you have to learn the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now like i teach in my course-sign up here to join the waiting list. He’s the kind of man you thought you wanted to marry-until you married him. Or until he changes. Or until he dumps you and marries another woman after you-within months.
Verdict: Time Waster
Goal: Use you to test drive what he actually wants in a marriage and from a woman-without the intention of actually settling down with you. He leaves you feeling useless.
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