1. Express yourself: You have to become comfortable with expression. Expression means to say what you think or mean. How do you do it? Practice listening to your thoughts and rationing them through. Begin to understand your position on certain values-for instance-your position on relationships. This is important because it will enable you to move steadily and consistently towards one direction-this in turn will mold your outlook on life depending on the route you have chosen. Expression is key for this because it builds confidence through action.
2.
Use your voice: Speak. It’s that simple but also that complicated! You need
to become comfortable with the sound of your own voice. A lot of us experience
nervousness when we speak in front of a large audience because we are not
comfortable with our voice. When you rehearse and practice consistently through
expressing yourself with friends, family and even practicing sharing your
views-you will become comfortable with the sound of your voice.
3.
Listen to critique: Don’t be intimated by critique. A lot of us feel
destabilized if someone or the other expresses a view we do not necessarily
agree with. Don’t feel attacked-listen to
what the other person is saying. Hence you will be able to respond. Sometimes it is the cloud of
anxiety that makes someone else’s opinion seem more rational than ours. But its
not about that-its about being able to express your views clearly and
coherently. And how do you this? You
listen, you think, you respond.
4.
Practice consistently: This is so key: practice makes perfect! It truly does! I
know from personal experiences speaking I enjoy practice-it prepares you for
the climate of people you will be talking to, it enables you to hear the sound of your words and this is so
important-words sound a lot different
when spoken than when written. So practice to hear your words and see if
they carry meaning-do they carry weight?
How can you change their posture in the sentence to emphasize meaning?
5.
Be true to you: Confidence is exuded differently through different people.
Don’t feel a particular tone or posture or language is necessary for conveying
confidence-you need to find your own
sound and remix it! What do I mean? Learn through the steps above what
works for you and channel your personality through this position to express
your views! This way, you remain true to you and in the process you build your
self-confidence in expressing your views.
Q: Like I said earlier, what is your position on
relationships/career/purpose-why?
Tip: You need to know where you stand on certain issues and
why-this will give you the confidence to be able to speak with certainty from
your viewpoint and express your reasons cogently and coherently.
Click these links to check out more steps:
5 Simple Steps To Find Your Purpose
The Path to Self Confidence
Audio discussions are available at these links:
The Flow
Awakening Destiny
Doorway to Destiny
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Click these links to check out more steps:
5 Simple Steps To Find Your Purpose
The Path to Self Confidence
Audio discussions are available at these links:
The Flow
Awakening Destiny
Doorway to Destiny
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