BECOMING CONFIDENT: HOW TO FIND AUTHENTICITY

Hey Guys! This is part of my Becoming Confident Series-check out last week’s post by clicking on this link.

1. Spend time with yourself: What is your personality? What do you enjoy? What do you dislike? Be honest with your voice-let it speak-listen to your conscience and analyze what it means-what are your thoughts on different situations? Be authentic with yourself and then you will be able to be authentic with others.

2. Reflect on your experiences: Experiences are the pearl drops of wisdom life drops at your feet and you need to absorb each one to be able to learn from within. It takes time-it may hurt, it may sting, but ultimately it will heal and it will enable you to see clearer visions of your destiny. For instance, ever been through a bad break up? What did that teach you? Don’t hide from it-reflect on it and think about what went wrong-what you and your ex did wrong, what you and your ex could have done right-this will enable you to be able to move forward into new paths-not littered with the same mistakes of the past.

3. Take tiny steps to build your destiny:  Now that you have spent time with yourself, become comfortable with your voice, reflected on your experiences, you will be able to engage more naturally with your reality. You will find paths that open up for you through your thinking on how to build bridges from your dreams into reality. How? For instance, you may have discovered you like music, maybe you enjoy classical music for instance, and then from this point, you can reflect on your experiences in this area-like for instance, have you ever tried to learn more about classics? What did that entail? What did you learn? Now you channel those experiences into destiny-for instance, you take a class, you start a blog, you start small, and remain consistent and eventually you grow in the process.

4. Authenticity shines through consistency:  Once you have taken these tiny steps to destiny, through blogging, music, writing, singing, or whatever else you have learned from your past experiences, you will notice that as you remain consistent, you learn more about how to be authentic because you will have connected your passion with consistency-that is the channel that allows your destiny to flow into your reality.

5. Remain realistic: This is one of the most important parts of these tips: you need to remain realistic. Just because no one appreciates your music, dance, art, singing, writing, does not mean you are not authentic. Don’t give in to the pressure around you. Allow yourself to be built through disappointment. Don’t expect overnight success-that happens for no one-it is a lot of work and commitment, and consistency, and this will allow you to grow in the process. As you remain realistic, and maintain your authenticity, the path of progress will open up into a more beneficial reality. So stick with it!

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Q: What has been your journey with authenticity?

Tip: You need to find yourself first before you can find your calling-so start dating you-you enjoy music-sing, learn, share and connect with yourself in the process-that is how you birth your authenticity into your reality.

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