The path to self confidence has a lot of detours and road blocks and stop signs and even dead ends-it is not a straight forward path that leads to answers or solutions; it has a lot of doubts, deeds, questions that lead to quests, answers that lead to assertions, all in the path of self discovery and uncovering your truth. I start like this because I want you to understand-self confidence is not gained overnight.

Those that walk in it have walked through trials, tests, temptations and still battle doubts, darkness and lies. It is a path more attuned to self discovery-more keyed into the reception of your individual thoughts.

This is the path that leads to self confidence-that is where you find that unique roar. The sound that gets attention, the presence that speaks of self assurance, the laughter that rings with a deeper knowledge of truth, the words that carry the weight of wisdom behind them-all cushioned into the comfort of humility.

This is where self confidence speaks. And you may ask-how do I discover it, where does it reside? The answer is-it is an inner voice that speaks from the core of your heart.

Self confidence starts from the point of self conversation, self realization, self investigation-and this is when the thoughts of uncertainty, and the doubts of future decisions meet and mingle with your thoughts-this is where experiences are created, this is where personalities are formed-and out of this beautiful melody-self confidence is born.

It is more than a voice, it is more than a sound you make to create an impression-it is a presence that speaks of the weight of experience, a voice that carries more words even when it speaks in silence, it is the aura you project when you have walked through the lanes of life’s many tests. When you meet people, form new friendships, break old bonds-through those moments self confidence is formed.

This is when you realize you are more than enough-when you face your true reflection and stop hiding from your thoughts. When you no longer feel the need to justify your behavior you bond with your words. This union creates a powerful environment of alignment-it is why you see many that speak on the platform of stages in words, melodies, music and song, many that write and teach and lead have all danced before with self esteem issues-but have won.

They have all learned there is no need to justify your actions to another person’s words. There is no need to spend so much precious time you have, pleasing others and still entertaining defeat. There is a difference between receiving wise words, and listening to careful instruction as opposed to being pounded with demeaning tones and being surrounded with jarring accusations.

Self-confidence is found when you start to speak with your unique voice. When you begin this internal monologue, it will affect your external dialogue, and your growth will reflect the progress you have made in discovering the depths of your soul.

This is why self-confidence is really a road map of self-discovery. There are detours of delays and worries, dead ends blocked with dangerous thoughts infested with infirmities. But, on each turn, there is a passage that leads deeper into your inner being-a place where you grow strongly rooted in your unique reality.

So begin this walk today-start talking to yourself-stop entertaining delay. You are more than enough, you are beautifully created and wonderfully made-all you need is to unlock the key of discovery to your true face-a face that shows your ability to speak, to move, to teach, to lead that all comes from your inner core-confidence speaking from within-unashamed at its core. This is what happens when you dig deep into conversation with yourself, like so many relationships where we want a return on our investments, the more time you invest in your thoughts, the more protective you become of your identity, the more keen you become to understand your true nature.

And this is where self-confidence is born. You glow in imperfect perfection when you begin to speak from your inner core-when you entertain your inner sights-you will become uncomfortable with lies because self confidence releases a unique insight through your eyes.

So let your heart begin to talk-listen to its beat as it leads you down a new street of discovery-don’t be afraid-embrace it.

This is when you will begin the journey towards self discovery-this is when self confidence joins with your form and you can now speak from a position filled with confidence of your calling and where you truly belong.

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