READY TO GET MARRIED IN A YEAR? 💍
Work with me in Dating To Marry to get married in a year
For the single Christian woman that’s ready to say “I DO” ❤️
Does this sound like you?
I keep ending up in situationships that go nowhere
I don't trust my own judgment about men anymore
I'm a leader everywhere else in my life — except here
I don't know if I'm believing God for a husband or just hoping
I've done the inner work, prayed, waited — and I'm still single
I don't know what's actually keeping the right men away from me
And here’s what you want:
I want to be married within the next year, not "someday"
I want to recognize my husband and not talk myself out of him
I want to stop repeating the same pattern with different men
I want a clear, spiritual, and practical path — not just more advice
I want to feel confident, not anxious, while I date
DATING TO MARRY IS FOR YOU!
YOU CAN BE PLANNING YOUR WEDDING IN A YEAR 💍💍💍
TOPE - DATING ALIGNED MEN AFTER DATING TO MARRY
WHAT’S IN THE CURRICULUM?
Phase 1 (Months 1–6): The Dating Success Path:
The step-by-step path to meeting her husband — the same kind of path you have already used to build your career and finances, now applied to dating.
Dating history + habits audit — you see the pattern you’ve been blind to
Building your Hubby List — you get specific instead of vague about who you’re dating and what he looks like
You learn how to talk to men in 4 steps - and stop overthinking conversation
Leveraging your singleness through purpose — you meet your husband through your life, not despite it
Dating anxiety + beliefs — you identify what's driving the fear underneath the pattern you’ve carried for decades
Learn exactly what you need to do in dating — you know what "going well" actually looks like
Wife identity vs. nice identity — you stop shrinking to keep a man interested
Understanding how men think and act — you stop misreading signals
Leading with your value — you attract the right men for you instead of chasing
Monthly Review / Reflection / Revelation calls — real chats, real course-correction, real planning
Phase 2 (Months 7–12): The Dating Success Recipe + Dating Gap
What makes the right man recognize you — and the one unconscious thing that's been keeping him away.
Dating beliefs — deeper blocks we need to remove now that you’re in a relationship
Spiritual identity through Scripture (Deborah, Esther, etc.) — you see your path to marriage through a biblical lense
Dating clues — you excavate 3 pivotal life moments for patterns she's missed
Dating question map — you know exactly what to ask a serious prospect
Knowing the one, Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now — you stop settling or self-sabotaging
I show you how to get married in a year with a man you’re committed to
I walk and work with you to the altar
DAMI - MARRIED IN A YEAR
WHAT'S INCLUDED IN 1-1 SESSIONS?
60 minute sessions every single week for 12 months to walk with you from single to married
Your private dating folder containing all our session notes, recordings, action steps to keep you accountable and guided through the dating journey to marriage
Whatsapp chats in real time to answer all your dating questions
Prayer built into each session at the start and end inviting the Holy Spirit for direction and discernment on your path to marriage
A framework you can keep using long after the 12 months end that will help you when you’re engaged and married
IJEOMA - MARRIED IN A YEAR
HOW THIS IS DIFFERENT (5 reasons)
This isn't dating advice — it's a path, the same way you’d expect a path to a promotion or a business goal
It's faith-forward, not faith-adjacent — Scripture and prayer are built into the method, not sprinkled on top
It's not a course. It's 1:1 — every session is built around your actual dating life that month
It names the one thing (your Dating Gap) instead of overwhelming you with 10 things to fix
It's built with my methodology that has led over 19 clients married through this exact process — not theory
WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT IN THE FIRST 30 DAYS?
By day 30, you will have:
Named your real dating pattern that has kept you stuck for the first time
Built your Hubby List to know your husband
Started talking to men
And finally have a dating life and routine instead of waiting for it to happen
THE INVESTMENT: $ 6,000 PAID IN FULL
WELCOME! I’M EXCITED TO WORK WITH YOU
My name is Tolu. I’m a Christian dating coach with 10 years of experience helping accomplished single women date with clarity, discernment, and purpose.
I am the founder of Dating To Marry, a faith-based coaching brand built to help women get married in a year — and over 19 women have gotten married through my coaching.
I have built a following of 100,000+ women online, where I share practical, faith-rooted dating strategy through Fan The Flame.
I am also the founder of the WIW Prayer Convention, an annual gathering that draws hundreds of women together for 3 nights of prayer, breakthrough, and testimony — with marriages released every single year as a result.
I am a licensed attorney and certified financial crime compliance specialist — training grounded in due diligence, discernment, and knowing how to spot red flags before they cost you everything. I bring that same rigor into how I teach you to vet a man, not just a business deal.
My mission is simple: help Christian women like you stop waiting passively for marriage, and start walking toward it — with strategy, discernment, and faith breaking generational cycles in the process.
THE INVESTMENT : $ 6,000 PAID IN FULL
DAMI - MARRIED IN A YEAR
CHIDINDMA - MARRIED IN A YEAR
SYLVIA - MARRIED 2 YEARS AFTER DATING TO MARRY
MARRIED AND PREGNANT AFTER DATING TO MARRY
“I knew that once I called Tolu things would be DIFFERENT especially regarding the relationship that I was in at that time.
I tried to fix but I couldn’t and I think I knew that calling Tolu will give me the help and steps to redirect my steps even if it meant I will be single at the end of our session.
Talking with Tolu was like talking to a friend who was not afraid to tell me truth with love.
These sessions helped me realize my calling in life, my purpose and how to be patient with the things of the Lord.
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FAQ'S
ENGAGED 8 MONTHS AFTER DATING TO MARRY
What if I'm already dating someone?
Doesn't matter. We find out fast if he's who you should be building with.
How is this different from therapy?
This is forward-focused and outcome-driven, not processing the past for its own sake.
What if I don't meet anyone in the first 6 months?
That's built into the plan — month 6 is a checkpoint, not a deadline you've failed.
4. Do I need to already know my "type"?
No — most clients come in with the wrong type in mind. That's session 1–3.
5. What happens after month 12 if I'm not married yet?
There's a path to continue support; it's not a cliff. And you’ll be 50% closer to your marriage than when you started. We have clients that got married after a year because they went through the Dating To Marry process in a year!
I’M WORKING WITH ONLY 3 WOMEN !!!
“I liked how Tolu would relate my issues with certain people in the Bible who went through similar things. I think that is very valuable! So that others can see they are not alone, the challenges they face are not new and have solutions, and that the Lord is not surprised or judging of them with their challenges or pitfalls.”
If you’ve read this far:
You’re tired of constantly attracting emotionally unavailable men
You’re ready to date your husband
You’re ready to transform
Dating To Marry is for YOU!
